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  • Shoulder Check: Peer Connection & Suicide Prevention with Rob Thorsen

    Guest: Rob Thorsen, Executive Director at Shoulder Check / HT40 Foundation

    Hosts: Dr. Mark Allen & Dr. Tommy Horn

    Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of suicide, loss, and mental health struggles. If you or someone you know needs help, contact the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 (U.S.).

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    Episode Overview

    Athlete suicide prevention starts with one simple behavior: reach out, check in, make contact. In this powerful episode of the Peak Sports Psychiatry Podcast, we sit down with Rob Thorsen, Executive Director of Shoulder Check and the #HT40 Foundation, after the tragic loss of his son Hayden in 2022. Rob walks through why Shoulder Check focuses on behavioral action over awareness, how peer-to-peer connection is one of the most powerful tools in athlete mental health and suicide prevention, and how teams, schools, and entire communities can implement Shoulder Check through ready-to-use toolkits - including the viral 'Lean On Me' arena moment that captured what culture change really looks like.

    Key Takeaways

  • • Behavioral Action Over Awareness: Shoulder Check emphasizes taking action - reaching out, checking in, making contact - rather than just raising awareness.
  • • Peer-to-Peer Connection: Teammates and peers are often the first to notice when someone is struggling, making peer connection one of the most powerful tools in suicide prevention.
  • • Everyone Can Help: You don't need to be a professional to make a difference - everyone is qualified to reach out and show they care.
  • • Turnkey Implementation: Teams and schools can implement Shoulder Check through ready-to-use toolkits designed for immediate impact.
  • • The Power of Visibility: Culture change happens when connection becomes visible and shared - like the viral 'Lean On Me' arena moment.
  • • HT40 Foundation Mission: The #HT40 Foundation honors Hayden Thorsen's legacy by promoting mental health awareness and suicide prevention in sports.
  • Show Notes

    About Rob Thorsen

    Rob Thorsen is Executive Director at Shoulder Check / HT40 Foundation.

    Topics Discussed

  • • The origin story of Shoulder Check and the meaning behind HT40
  • • Why peer-to-peer connection is one of the most powerful tools in suicide prevention
  • • How teams and schools can implement Shoulder Check through turnkey toolkits
  • • The story behind the viral 'Lean On Me' arena moment
  • • How culture change happens when connection becomes visible and shared
  • • Why everyone - not just professionals - is qualified to help
  • • Hayden Thorsen's story and legacy
  • • The Shoulder Check Showcase at Sacred Heart University
  • Resources Mentioned

  • • Shoulder Check
  • • HT40 Foundation
  • • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
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